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Shreya's avatar

Corinne, I loved reading this because I found so much of myself here ❤️ Trying to make people understand what introversion really is (not shyness, not misanthropy) is one of my "nerdy" traits. In fact, I wasn't comfortable with the label until I did some good old-fashioned digging and wrote about it - https://www.elephantjournal.com/2016/04/finding-your-light-calling-all-introverts/ , https://shreya21094.substack.com/p/the-introvert-burnoutsocial-hangover and https://shreya21094.substack.com/p/introverted-teachers-and-impostor

Only and only writing has helped me to come to terms with it! Hugs.

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Corinne  Rodrigues's avatar

Interesting how you found that writing helped you come to terms with your introversion, Shreya. For me too, my writing helped me heal and accept myself as I was. I also began to see the connection between a loss of energy when I socialised - especially those 'have to' events.

Thank you for sharing. I'm off to check out the links you've shared. ♥

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Natasha's avatar

I’m among the rare breed of people who thrived in the pandemic. I loved it slow, quiet moments. I guess I’m an introvert though I’ve thought in the past that I had ambivert traits.

Lovely piece.

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Corinne  Rodrigues's avatar

Yes, the pandemic seems to have been the ultimate test of whether one is an introvert or not. I had started to suspect that I was - but Covid made sure to underline my introvertism! ;)

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Sunita Saldhana's avatar

In one of my sessions with my therapist I told him, "I think I am one of those few people who actually enjoyed the lockdown." And it's true, apart from worrying about family and friends, I loved the solitude, the quiet calm of an unhurried day and I was at my most productive!

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Corinne  Rodrigues's avatar

Yes, if we weren't so worried about actually getting Covid from them, I would have found our neighbours' need to keep meeting with each other laughable!

The pandemic really helped me change perspective and enjoy my own company!

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